My husband and I have been living together for six years. I had a baby. And, then the problems started. Problems in everything, but especially in sex. My husband is not happy with everything – he wants to, and I’m with the baby at the same time. He wants it in the park, behind a tree, so people can walk by. He wants gangbangs, he has such a variety, and I don’t like it. He’s always looking at porn photos, videos. I do not know how to change the situation – you can just enjoy life, in all its manifestations, and not just see the interest in sex. And the tension in which he has put me – deprives me of pleasure in sex. Maybe someone also has such problems?
The exploration of one’s own sexuality, preferences, practices and fantasies comes with many questions. It is at the point where knowledge about oneself, one’s own sexuality, and one’s understanding of social norms intersect that the question arises: “Am I normal? For me, it is normal to watch porn https://hotdose.com/models/eva-lovia and get variety in my relationships that way. Let’s talk about what is “normal” in the context of sexuality and sexual behavior. Have you ever heard the phrase “what is norm for the spider, chaos for the fly” or, for example, suum cuique (“to each his own”) and the equally famous “each … as he wishes”? The norm, as we know, is an elongated concept, but there is still a limit to it.
All these things have more of a decorative and psychological function: you can not reliably fix your partner’s hands with pink fur cuffs or inflict pain with a cute whip, but you can get the taste of the process and understand if it gives you a buzz. Beware: it’s addictive.